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The Mother Who Changed: A Story of Dementia
When cognitive decline changes people, should we respect their new desires?
By Michael Barbaro, Katie Engelhart, Luke Vander Ploeg, Clare Toeniskoetter, Diana Nguyen, Michael Benoist, Marion Lozano, Dan Powell, Pat McCusker, Diane Wong and Alyssa Moxley