Are you a workaholic? Here’s how to spot the signs
- By Berserk
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I can totally relate to this. For me it is more about age and stage of life. When you are in school you are only worth as much as the results from the latest exam and you chase every opprtunity to prove yourself.I graduated college with 3 degrees in 4 years with a 4.0. I ran multiple clubs' best years on campus, led a political campaign for my city, and trained for 2 marathons.
Now, I'm a C's get degrees kinda guy. I figure my C level effort is better than most people's A game. I don't volunteer for extra work, don't stick my head out beyond my coworkers and went from anxious & depressed guy to happy & laid back. Be the change you want to see in the world, only you can prevent yourself from overworking.
The older you get and more established you become the less you need to chase to feel good about youselve and at some point kids come into the picture. At that point you need to either prioritize work and be a shit dad or do the bare minimum at work to survive life.
To me many overachievers are basically stuck as eternal unsecure teenagers that use work as a way to relieve anxiety.
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