Annemarie Conte is an editor who writes the Ask Wirecutter column and trending-product reviews. She’d love to make you a friendship bracelet.
The pandemic has been both a terrible and joyous time to be a parent, and being home 24/7 has been bittersweet for me. I’m grateful that my husband, two daughters, and I are together and healthy. But I’m plagued by every surface of my house being covered with Lego pieces, Magna-Tiles, or Sculpey projects.
The state of your children’s toys can be a complicated matrix of parenting philosophy, amount of spare time, and energy to care. I’m not going to tell you how to parent your kids, but I am going to share some techniques to help you restore order to a room, whether it’s your main living area, your kid’s room, or a separate playroom.
Cull the extras
I have tried sorting through outgrown toys and books with my children, and it is always a struggle as they bawl over every scrap of paper. I’ve given in a bit to their pack-rat tendencies—the prettiest, most useful paper shreds go in a shoebox near their craft area, and everything else gets tossed when they’re asleep. Jess Grose, parenting columnist for The New York Times, uses a similar technique when it comes to her kids’ artwork. Research shows that clutter can be stressful, so an occasional purge is likely worth the mental payoff.
Create activity zones
Wirecutter senior staff writer Jackie Reeve once received some excellent advice from a Montessori teacher who told her that a big, mixed toy box is too overstimulating. Kids will spend more time digging through the jumble of toys and making a mess than actually playing with any of it. Keeping themed toys together is a logic path that kids can follow: All play food lives near the play kitchen, all building toys have a home in the yellow bins, all crafts cohabitate in an art corner.
Use the right storage solutions
In her piece on how to set up a creative space for your kids at home, Jackie offers a ton of options for what you might need, from rolling drawers to clear plastic storage boxes. Labeling your bins with a picture of what’s inside (in addition to words) is a great approach for pre-literate kids. And by doing this, you’re reinforcing object-word association, so, ta-da!—you’re teaching them stuff, too. Of course, some attractive, soft-sided toy storage can also be helpful. Our staff loves the aptly named Swoop Bag (to pick up Lego blocks in one swift motion) and the 3 Sprouts Storage Bin (perfect for stuffing with stuffies).
Move some items out of reach
Sure, you want your kids to be self-reliant, but it also stinks when you’re triumphantly searching for the last puzzle piece and it’s completely gone. Senior staff writer Lauren Dragan’s 5-year-old uses his bedroom as a playroom. “We have to keep it tidy, and labeled bins, under-bed storage, and shelving has saved us,” she said. “Things that will get out of hand easily if they are lost (see: board games) are on the highest shelves.”
Embrace the chaos
It’s nearly impossible to keep everything tidy at all times. That’s okay. So you could spot-clean as you go (kids as young as 2 or 3 will learn that they can’t move onto the next activity until all of the puzzle pieces are back in the box). Or you could do a maintenance clean every so often, to prevent your space from becoming garbage island.
Meet your guide
Annemarie Conte is a deputy editor at Wirecutter. She has written and edited for multiple local and national magazines throughout her career. You can follow her on Instagram.
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Further reading
How to Make Space for Kids to Be Creative at Home
by Jackie Reeve
With families spending more time at home, designating a special zone where kids can get creative (and messy) can be challenging—but rewarding.
How to Organize Your Fridge
by Marguerite Preston
A few clear bins, painter’s tape, and a Sharpie can keep chaos out of your fridge.
The Best Sofas You Can Buy Online
by Katie Okamoto, Gregory Han, and Abigail Stone
In this guide we walk you through what to look for before buying a sofa online and the best furniture companies to shop from.
How to Organize Your Desk
by Melanie Pinola
Corral the cords on your desk with a clip here, a tie there, and a metal snap to keep everything in place.