The Mother Who Changed: A Story of Dementia
As cognitive decline began to alter who Diane Norelius was, her adult daughters and her boyfriend wound up in a bitter dispute over which version of her should get to decide what she wanted.
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As cognitive decline began to alter who Diane Norelius was, her adult daughters and her boyfriend wound up in a bitter dispute over which version of her should get to decide what she wanted.
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Court hearings, media scrums, ruined holidays — Barbara Massey-Mapps suffered through it all to see the white supremacist who killed her sister convicted.
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Poem: The World Is Breaking in Flowers the Breath of Things
Darkness has a speed, and motion — hovering, being, flowing, breathing — unifies this poem and its world.
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Judge John Hodgman on Having Your Dead Fiancé Over for Dinner
Should a significant other respect very particular last wishes?
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