My Father Vanished When I Was 7. The Mystery Made Me Who I Am.
My dad was a riddle to me, even more so after he disappeared. For a long time, who he was – and by extension who I was – seemed to be a puzzle I would never solve.
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My dad was a riddle to me, even more so after he disappeared. For a long time, who he was – and by extension who I was – seemed to be a puzzle I would never solve.
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The pandemic revealed the glaring weaknesses of the world’s premier public health agency — and just how much work it would take to reform it.
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All of Janicza Bravo’s previous movies were playing in the place where humor and trauma meet. “Zola” was a natural fit.
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“The athletes do not have a seat at the table when the decisions are being made. It’s a big machine.”
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Don’t Play With Your Kids. Seriously.
I have three kids under 10 who don’t expect — or even want — to play with me. It took some practice, but over time, we’ve all learned we’re better off doing our own thing.
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A Delightful Glimpse Into Golf’s Secret World of Bitter Feuds
A moment ripe with loathing, shared between two large golfers, interrupts the game’s smooth surface.
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He Kept Seeing Sparkly Dots on the Edge of His Vision. What Was It?
A worrying smudge on a photo of his retina became an important clue.
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How Should I Deal With an Unvaccinated Student?
The magazine’s Ethicist columnist on the obligations faced by those who choose not to be vaccinated against Covid-19.
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Poem: ‘There is no news from Auschwitz’
This poem by Sonia Sanchez will astonish and alarm you.
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Strive to be both idealistic enough to envision a new world and pragmatic enough to steadily build it.
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Judge John Hodgman on Appropriate Labels for Younger Boomers
Must a teenager acknowledge his father, born in 1963, as a member of “Generation Jones”?
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