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I learned a new statistic a few weeks ago. For every 1 degree of global warming, domestic violence increases by 4.5%. I talk a lot about why we should keep the dual concepts of climate change and human rights connected when we evaluate options and start to plan new economies. As Transform:MCR (Doughnut Economics in Manchester) gets off the ground, it is imperative to continue to combine these triple goals in order to ensure that nobody is impacted negatively as we strive for a better Society. The idea that we must necessarily trade-off one factor for another is false despite what many people think. It's only currently true because we created an economy that causes significant climate damage in service to our humanistic needs. That's a choice. One we should be changing as soon as possible.

"The Met’s own figures show that 10% of 999 calls to them relate to domestic abuse, and it is responsible for 30% of all violence with injury and 50% of violence suffered by women. About 30% of rape and sexual offences take place within abusive relationships, the Met said." - The Guardian: https://bit.ly/4aRqQlt   The UK is facing a domestic abuse crisis that is spiralling beyond the reach of front-line services like the police. This is not a fringe issue, but a widespread public crisis that demands immediate national attention.   It’s crucial to recognise the far-reaching consequences of domestic abuse, including the devastating impact on babies and children. The Domestic Abuse Act 2021 recognised children as victims of domestic abuse in their own right, and the cycle of abuse can continue across generations.   The For Baby’s Sake Trust plays a critical role in supporting families affected by domestic abuse, guiding them as they rebuild their lives and recover from trauma. Nevertheless, the crisis is extensive, and it is crucial to urgently invest in expanding trauma-informed support to end the cycle of abuse in families across the nation.   Learn more about our policy calls for the next government here: https://bit.ly/45ff6bk

When you think of Christmas, what comes to mind? Spending time with friends and family, exchanging presents, excited children, a time for having fun? However for those experiencing domestic violence, Christmas can bring the anticipation of fear. Did you know that domestic violence accounts for 27% of all crime in Plymouth. Domestic abuse doesn’t stop at Christmas, and we’ve spoken to a domestic abuse survivor who knows that too well, who said: “I know the fear that is felt and that the road to freedom is lonely and often dangerous, but abuse of any kind is not ok and it cannot be tolerated. Silence fuels abuse and now more than ever there are people ready to listen and act. You have a right to live free from fear and there are services that can help you do that.” You can read more about their story here: https://ow.ly/zusU50Qk9pb There are local organisations that can support anyone experiencing domestic abuse, visit: https://ow.ly/zqGn50Qk9pc and remember, in an emergency always call 999 or 101 in a non-emergency.

Today's Monday Myth about domestic violence focuses on financial abuse. MYTH: Survivors are always financially dependent on their perpetrator. REALITY: Although we may often think of it as a survivor being cut off from financial resources or not allowed to work, the survivor could be the primary earner and still be taken advantage of financially. Like other types of abuse, financial abuse can come in many forms. This client mentioned being constantly questioned and criticized with how she was spending money. October is Domestic Violence Action Month, a time for us to come together, raise awareness, and take action towards eliminating domestic violence. To learn more, visit ywcaspokane.org/dvam

If England lose, domestic abuse can increase by up to 40%; if they win, surprisingly, it can still increase by around a quarter. "If domestic abuse has happened, there is fear about what is going to happen next. Life of a victim is like ‘walking on eggshells’, the trepidation of what may happen after games is unmeasurable. Lots of survivors like football so you've got a mixture of them really wanting England to do well, but being absolutely terrified." Victims are urged to seek help if they are experiencing abuse. The message to the survivors that they are not alone and want people not feel like it's their fault. Please know that there are resources and people ready to support you. You are not alone, and help is available.

#childrensmentalhealthweek With the cost of living crisis putting ever more pressure on families, this is a really useful article from the NSPCC on how to protect children from the impact of domestic abuse.

Supporting survivors of domestic abuse involves compassion, patience, and understanding. Here’s how you can make a meaningful difference: Listen Without Judgment: Allow survivors to share their stories in their own time and way. Listen actively, without interrupting or questioning their experiences. Your role is to provide a safe space for them to express their feelings. Believe and Validate: Believe what they tell you. Validating their feelings and experiences helps them feel heard and understood. Avoid doubting or minimizing their situation. Offer Practical Help: Assist with everyday tasks, such as providing transportation, helping them find housing, or accompanying them to court or medical appointments. Practical support can ease some of their burdens. Respect Their Decisions: Understand that leaving an abusive relationship is complex and may take time. Respect their choices and provide support, regardless of their decisions. Encourage Professional Support: Gently suggest that they seek professional help, such as counseling or legal advice. Offer to help them find resources, but let them take the lead in deciding what they need. Be Patient: Healing from abuse is a long process. Be patient and consistent in your support, even if progress seems slow. Read more on www.ceaf.org.ng https://lnkd.in/eEuPFB6j

Today the UK will join the global community in observing World Elder Abuse Awareness Day. This day serves as a stark reminder that elder abuse is a violation of human rights and a significant public health concern. In the UK, elder abuse often remains shrouded in silence, with many cases going unreported. Yet, studies indicate that over 2.7 million older people in the UK have been affected by abuse. The theme for 2024 emphasises the urgent need to address Gender-Based Violence (GBV) in Older Age. With the ageing population set to double by 2050, the number of abuse victims is projected to rise, making it imperative to implement evidence-based responses and robust policies. The UK has made strides in legislation and safeguarding guidance, but there is still much to be done to protect the dignity and well-being of our older citizens. By recognising the signs and indicators of abuse, neglect and harm we can take action, and create a safer environment for our elders.

The value of creating this resource https://lnkd.in/eZHqeNQp on developing a community-owned domestic abuse was made clear to me last week. Was returning from a comedy night and witnessed a precursor to a domestic abuse incident. I could recognise what it was thanks to creating the above resource and other work I've done in the space. As could the person I was travelling with (as they have read the resource!). So we both reported it and got a reply to that today. I won't go into details as it's a pretty long account! It is not easy to work in a community setting to develop a domestic abuse plan. If more people were aware of what the precursor to abuse looked like, we might get more early interventions, and that could save lives. I will also say that decent staff training and an active policy to support victims/survivors are essential. Sadly, it is way more prevalent than people think.

October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month. While October has several awareness and affinity events associated with it, this one often gets lost and overshadowed, despite 1 in 4 women and 1 in 7 men experiencing some form of domestic abuse. Abuse can include physical, emotional, sexual, or financial, alone or in any combination. Each week this month I want to share some information about domestic violence, and its prevalence. This week I want to highlight the “Why don’t you just leave” assumption people have. Quite simply, it’s never that easy. Even if someone is aware they are experiencing abuse, leaving is a difficult step. They may be preparing to, they may be second-guessing the choice or the existence of abuse. Ensuring the safety of children and pets when leaving can take priority over personal safety. Most importantly, the victim needs to truly know and understand the abuse cycle, and be ready to take that step. It cannot be forced by those around them. If you suspect someone in your life is experiencing domestic violence, be a safe place for them to share, and offer support as you as possible and comfortable. Telling them to leave could easily push them away. If you or someone you know is looking for help The National Domestic Violence Hotline has local resources. Free and confidential support is available over the phone (1-800-799-SAFE), by text, or chat on the website.