7 things I wish I had known as an intern, in honor of National Intern Day:
1. Executives, celebrities--they're all just people. Sure, they make more money and have more experience than you do, but they shouldn't intimidate you so much that you freeze up when you talk to them. I was only 18 at my first internship at Teen People Magazine, and I was so nervous about interviewing Jennifer Love Hewitt that I accidentally called her Jennifer Lopez. (At least this made a funny story to share when I interviewed her again many years later for Working Mother.)
2. Try to figure something out yourself first before rushing to ask someone for help. But if after, say, 15 minutes you're not making progress, ask for an assist from the lowest-level person who can help you. My editor at my second internship, at Parenting Magazine, taught me this, and I wish I had learned it sooner. I bet she did too.
3. If you get an assignment and know a better way to do it, suggest it. I spent days and days manually transcribing celebrity interviews at Teen People. The tools in 2001 might not have been as great as they are now, but there had to be a better way than me listening to a fuzzy recording, typing a few words, restarting the tape (yes, tape!), and doing this again and again. (I get unpleasant flashbacks whenever I hear Mark McGrath of Sugar Ray talking.) Using tech could've been more efficient, but I, perhaps wrongly, assumed I wasn't allowed.
4. Use your inside voice. Interning was fun. I'd talk a LOT to fellow interns. But one time an editor complained about all the noise coming from the intern bullpen. It was embarrassing for us to get scolded. I'm sure it was embarrassing for our super-kind manager to have to tell us to pipe down.
5. Set a goal for your internship and ask your manager to help you reach it. I wanted a byline SO BADLY. But I wasn't strategic about getting one. I should have looked for editors who were drowning and needed the extra help, or low-level opportunities where my writing would've been appreciated. I got very lucky to get to write something anyway.
6. Don't take feedback personally. I was shocked--SHOCKED!--when only my first two sentences of that article I wrote were left as I had submitted them. And I felt so foolish that I couldn't produce writing exactly like what the editor wanted. I shouldn't have. Editing is subjective, as so much feedback is. Instead of feeling wounded, I should have learned from the editor's changes--and even shown I understood them and pitched another story to write.
7. Take pictures! I have 4 photos from my time at Teen People--and even less from my other internships and jobs. The memories will be so precious when you're a middle-aged fart like me and want to reminisce. Here I am with the one visitor I worked up the nerve to talk to: Edwin McCain, of "I'll Be" and "I Could Not Ask for More" fame. (He was nice.)
Love that I get to be a mentor to a Fidtern as a #fidelityassociate #nationalinternday
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