Working Hard Isn't Enough, Part 1
Roughly 3 years ago I stopped drinking for many reasons. The most important one was that I didn't like who I was when I drank. Neither did my wife, kids, or friends. I was mean, curt, and sarcastic. For those that know me, this is not the "True Steve."
Stopping drinking was an easy decision. It was even easier to just not drink. I replaced beer with sparkling water and coffee. And, when I did want to have a beer, I began to explore the world of non-alcoholic beers. Now, I know that there are people out there that cannot and should not drink non-alcoholic beer because of their addiction. If you are one of them, don't try this at home! For me, I began to experiment with N/A beer and began to think of myself as a sommelier of NA beer. In case you're curious, my favorite is Athletic Brewing Co. and their Wild Run IPA and The Boston Beer Company and their Gold Rush NA ... My "everyday" choice is The HEINEKEN Company, Heineken 0.0%.
During this time I really began to think about who I was, who I wanted to be, and how to get there.
I read about the most successful people in the world and realized that many of them did not drink alcohol either. This helped me realize that if I was going to be who I wanted to be, then alcohol would no longer be an option.
In addition to quitting drinking, I became even more committed to my job and made a huge difference in supporting the sellers at Quadient. Through coaching, teaching, and mentoring, I was able to inspire my peers, sales leadership, and sales professionals. Professionally, my time at Quadient was amongst the most fulfilling and rewarding of my career.
I also began to be more involved with my children by listening to them, helping them through life challenges, and even learning about the worlds of Roblox Fortnite, and some other games. It became less important to have a clean room and more important to be present in their life.
Over the next two years, I really got to a place where I was "happy." I liked who I was, I loved what I was doing, and I felt like the stars had finally aligned for me. Unfortunately for me, I made a mistake and took another role at Quadient that was not as fulfilling. To me, it is more important to make an impact and be valued in an organization than even money. As a result, I left and began working at Thales. The transition back into a people manager role was exciting, challenging, and rewarding. There were rough patches along the way and I was able to make some progress in changing the culture at Thales.
Then, I was diagnosed with a brain tumor...
Career break while I plan my future
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