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“Sandwich is joy in book form. I laughed continuously, except for the parts that made me cry. Catherine Newman does a miraculous job reminding us of all the wonder there is to be found in life."—Ann Patchett, New York Times bestselling author of Tom Lake

“If you like my novels, you will love love love this . . . . I stand in awe, it’s just perfect.”—Elin Hilderbrand, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Swan Song

From the beloved author of We All Want Impossible Things, a moving, hilarious story of a family summer vacation full of secrets, lunch, and learning to let go.

For the past two decades, Rocky has looked forward to her family’s yearly escape to Cape Cod. Their humble beach-town rental has been the site of sweet memories, sunny days, great meals, and messes of all kinds: emotional, marital, and—thanks to the cottage’s ancient plumbing—septic too.

This year’s vacation, with Rocky sandwiched between her half-grown kids and fully aging parents, promises to be just as delightful as summers past—except, perhaps, for Rocky’s hormonal bouts of rage and melancholy. (Hello, menopause!) Her body is changing—her life is, too. And then a chain of events sends Rocky into the past, reliving both the tenderness and sorrow of a handful of long-ago summers.

It's one precious week: everything is in balance; everything is in flux. And when Rocky comes face to face with her family’s history and future, she is forced to accept that she can no longer hide her secrets from the people she loves.


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"Occasionally a writer comes along who seems able to turn every domestic triumph and tear, every dinner concocted, co-sleep endured and I.P.A. swallowed (or not)—in other words, the ordinary stuff of first-world life—into material rife with wit, humor and soul-bearing openness. Catherine Newman. . .is that sort of writer. . . .Impassioned, crackling, vividly detailed writing and utter hilarity. . . .If you want to laugh out loud, tear up and rush to pull out a book in the 35 seconds between subway stops, this sweet, savory, tenderhearted Sandwich fits the bill, and goes down like (bread and) buttah." — New York Times Book Review

“[Sandwich] practically glows with family feeling . . . . [it] has much in common with Ann Patchett’s Tom Lake, though Patchett’s novel doesn’t have an older generation, a key element here . . . . The laughter begins on the first page . . . and the great lines and witty observations never stop.” — Washington Post

Sandwich is my idea of the perfect summer novel: shimmering and substantive. One more aspect of Newman’s book deserves highlighting: like many other recent novels by best-selling female authors—I’m thinking of Jennifer Weiner, Ann Patchett, and Megan Abbott—Newman introduces a storyline here about abortion. She writes about that contested subject—and the emotions it engenders—in a way that I’ve never encountered in fiction before.” — Maureen Corrigan, NPR’s “Fresh Air"

“Finally, literary fiction has started to fully appreciate the joy of an older female narrator . . . . Rocky is a worthy member of this new and much-needed club, not just for her date of birth but also for her relatability . . . . a protagonist like Rocky is so necessary, because a whole generation will now be able to read this wise and exquisitely written story and say I know how you feel. They will say, Same." — The Guardian

“What I love about this book is we see from the perspective of the mother how incredibly excited she is to bring her family all together again, which is something I can relate to . . . . she is in that sandwich generation, in that middle place in life. Newman did an exquisite job of showing that middle place with a lot of humor and sensitivity and kindness. It’s a book I couldn’t stop thinking about when I finished.” — Liz Egan, New York Times Book Review podcast

“Newman is warm, generous, always funny—but always with the intent to make you laugh at yourself as much as the characters. A beach novel to pass onto your best friends.” — Oprah Daily

"Secrets are confessed and ties between parents and their adult children are tested on a week's vacation in Cape Cod. Newman's light touch keeps this family drama from slipping into melodrama. Feels like eating pastries (from the "good" bakery) over coffee while venting to my mother on the beach." — Boston Globe

"With the pacing of a thriller, observations akin to poetry and real-life conflict like memoir, Newman’s novel about one family’s week on Cape Cod should find a place in your beach bag, even if your own summer vacation is in Bali. The menopausal Rocky, her husband, their two grown children (along with one’s partner), and her aged parents enjoy time-honored traditions but also have to figure out how to negotiate time’s changes on all of them." — Los Angeles Times

“If you like my novels, you will love love love this . . . . I stand in awe, it’s just perfect.” — Elin Hilderbrand, #1 New York Times bestselling author of Swan Song

"I loved this little beautiful book. You could put it in your beach bag and read it in one sitting. I did . . . . The ultimate beach read." — Jenna Bush Hager

"Sandwich is joy in book form. I laughed continuously, except for the parts that made me cry. Catherine Newman does a miraculous job reminding us of all the wonder there is to be found in life." — Ann Patchett, New York Times bestselling author of Tom Lake

“This delightful book just begs to get sand between its pages . . . . a beautiful testament to how decisions can reverberate down the decades and into the delicate future.” — People

If you want a book that has you from ‘hello,’ this is the one.” — Ann Patchett, PBS NewsHour

Sandwich will have you laughing through your tears . . . . You’ll be screenshotting paragraphs of this heartbreakingly honest novel to send to your friends.” — Real Simple

“I love [Newman's] writing . . . . I flew through it. I really think it’s going to be everywhere this summer . . . . it’s incredibly human and real and tender and I loved it. Catherine Newman is so talented.” — Carola Lovering, ABC/Good Morning America

“I couldn’t love it more, can’t stop talking about it, can’t stop texting full paragraphs to my friends saying, Right!!??? . . . . It’s so completely fun and laugh-out-loud funny the way summer reads are supposed to be.” — Jenny Rosenstrach, Cup of Jo

“It’s a real beauty.” — Glennon Doyle, We Can Do Hard Things podcast

"Sandwich reminds me of Laurie Colwin’s Happy All the Time—Newman shares Colwin's ability to write about intertwined happiness and heartbreak (as well as her passion for food). I found myself snorting out loud with laughter, the wheezing kind, then all at once, deeply moved. This is a book about love and change and loss, all packed into an annual family week on Cape Cod. And it’s a total delight." — Kate Christensen, author of The Great Man and Welcome Home, Stranger

“I adore Catherine Newman's warm voice and quirky writing style. Her characters are always full of heart, funny, and vulnerable in ways that will make you feel seen and heard. I still can’t stop thinking about her last book, We All Want Impossible Things (she somehow made hospice care hilarious?!), and I ripped through her latest, Sandwich, in about a day . . . . Pour yourself a crisp glass of wine, dip your toes in the sand, and enjoy the ride." — Lindsay Powers, Amazon Editors' Picks

“Newman imbues Rocky’s internal struggles with importance and gravity, all while showcasing her very funny observations about life and parenting. She examines motherhood with a raw honesty that few others manage—she remembers the hard parts, the depths of despair, panic, and anxiety that can happen with young children, and she also recounts the joy in a way that never feels saccharine. She has a gift for exploring the real, messy contradictions in human emotions . . . . A moving, hilarious reminder that parenthood, just like life, means constant change.” — Kirkus Reviews (starred review)

“Books with this one’s warmth and humor are truly rare.” — Good Housekeeping

“Newman . . . returns with a story about a woman coming to terms with life over 50. As her family gathers for the annual vacation on Cape Cod, Rocky is worn out by menopause and nostalgia . . . . she is within the sandwich generation, torn between past and present. Readers in this age group will relate to Rocky’s woes, and as the novel’s tone becomes more serious, they may identify with Rocky’s history as well. This is a quick yet moving read that will stay with readers long after the last page.” — Booklist (starred review)

"I loved reading this book! Not only do I want to send this gracious family a thank you note for having me along for a week at the beach, I’m still laughing out loud when I think of some sentences, and lumping up in my throat when I think of others." —  Eliza Minot, author of In the Orchard and The Tiny One

Newman . . . has skillfully crafted both setting and characters in this novel that will resonate with all in the "sandwich generation," caregivers for parents and children alike . . . . There is just enough humor thrown in that readers may laugh as much as they cry at the all-too-relatable situations and the razor-sharp witty conversations among the family members. Women’s fiction readers will gobble this delicious (though at times heartbreaking) sandwich right up.” — Library Journal (starred review)

“Like We All Want Impossible Things, Newman’s new novel is borne along by her humor . . . . the story is ultimately about harnessing the power of love and family bonds to overcome sadness and loss.” — Amherst Bulletin

"Catherine Newman nails it all: the hilarious domestic details of family life, the tremendous stakes of our most personal choices, and the vulnerability of loving other human beings wholeheartedly. I feel this book so deep in my bones." — Mary Laura Philpott, author of Bomb Shelter: Love, Time, and Other Explosives

"I just finished Catherine Newman’s latest novel, Sandwich. I was reading it while waiting at my daughter’s ballet class, and I was crying-snorting-laughing." — Erin Boyle, Big Salad Newsletter

“If you’re looking for something short and snappy, read Sandwich. The new novel from Catherine Newman, the author of We All Want Impossible Things, is a pure delight.” — The Skimm

"A piece of perfection . . . Family, love, secrets, a marriage that is ordinary, imperfect, sexy and beautiful . . . I laughed, I cried and I laughed some more . . . a wonderful book about how families love, disagree, fail one another—and endure."   — Rachel Joyce, author of The Unlikely Pilgrimage of Harold Fry

"A moving and heartwarming tale of family that rings deeply true." — Cambridge Day

“Catherine is a national treasure.” — Molly Wizenberg, I’ve Got A Feeling newsletter

“Catherine Newman has the most effervescent way of elevating mundane situations—from making a sandwich to fumbling with technology to arguing with your spouse. I’ve loved every Catherine Newman book I’ve read—from her nearly 10-year-old parenting memoir Waiting for Birdy to her devastatingly sad (and hilarious) novel We All Want Impossible Things—and this one, about the undeniable weirdness of raising adult children and caring for aging parents (all while spending a week at the beach) is no exception.” — Kveller

“What makes Sandwich different from where other novels may go with this set-up is that love and family are the anchors. There is drama, but it is quieter . . . . That is the strength of this novel. That, and the lovely portrayal of traditions that go back years and have thus become cherished. Newman's writing is so on point about this that anyone who has gone to a beloved spot many times will recognize their own trips.” — Daily Kos

About the Author

Catherine Newman has written numerous columns, articles, and canned-bean recipes for magazines and newspapers, and her essays have been widely anthologized. She is the author of the novel We All Want Impossible Things; the memoirs Waiting for Birdy and Catastrophic Happiness; the middle-grade novel One Mixed-Up Night; and the bestselling kids’ life-skills books How to Be a Person and What Can I Say? She lives in Amherst, Massachusetts.

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Harper (June 18, 2024)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Hardcover ‏ : ‎ 240 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 0063345161
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-0063345164
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 10.4 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.79 x 8.25 inches
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Catherine Newman is the author of the kids' how-to books How to Be a Person and What Can I Say?, the memoirs Catastrophic Happiness and Waiting for Birdy, the middle-grade novel One Mixed-Up Night, and the grown-up novels We All Want Impossible Things (Harper 2022) and Sandwich (Harper 2024). She edits the non-profit kids' cooking magazine ChopChop and is a regular contributor to the New York Times, O, The Oprah Magazine, Cup of Jo, and many other publications. She lives in Amherst, Massachusetts, with her family.

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Customers find the writing quality a treat and the story simple. They also appreciate the depth of emotion and humor. Readers describe the content as truthful and funny. However, some find the storyline boring and obnoxious. Opinions are mixed on the story, with some finding it great and others saying it's too long. Customers also have mixed feelings about the characters, with others finding them vivid and likable, while others find them unlikeable.

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32 customers mention "Writing quality"23 positive9 negative

Customers find the writing quality of the book a treat, with vivid characters and down-to-earth humor. They also describe it as a quick and easy summer read that's complex.

"...The one they’ve been coming back to year after year. Easygoing Nick, Jamie, who loves to cook, brought his sweet and adoring girlfriend Maya, whom..." Read more

"...She is truly a gifted writer. Unfortunately she has decided to write about one of the most obnoxious families I’ve ever met in a novel...." Read more

"...Overwrought, overblown, and with an ending-wrapped-in-a-bow. Of course! When done, I felt like I had just consumed a family-sized bag of Cheetos...." Read more

"Easy, uncomplicated book. A week at the beach at 54 as kids are growing up; parents are aging. Enjoyable enough. Some very funny moments." Read more

22 customers mention "Emotional tone"22 positive0 negative

Customers find the emotional tone of the book unbelievably real, full of love, and life affirming. They also mention that the book is poignant, funny, tender, and human.

"...She gets us. There is a nuance to these characters, a depth of emotion so unbelievably real, you can see yourself, you’ll nod your head, laugh along..." Read more

"...between the main character and her elderly parents in a very touching and real way...." Read more

"...Which means: connected, flawed, yet full of love and hope. Read it! You'll be glad you did!" Read more

"...Ready reading with emotions which not only bring up family issues but also family ties." Read more

22 customers mention "Humor"19 positive3 negative

Customers find the humor in the book down to earth and quirky. They also say the family interplay is funny.

"...The characters are quirky and some of the family interplay is funny but overall, it's a serious look at learning to accept the changes that occur..." Read more

"...And she can be very funny, but so many times, I just wanted to throw the book across the room. Oh well…not for everyone." Read more

"...With her signature style that pairs heart with humor, she transports us to Cape Cod with Rocky (in all her menopause glory) and her family...." Read more

"...Enjoyable enough. Some very funny moments." Read more

7 customers mention "Content"7 positive0 negative

Customers find the book's content truthful, beautiful, and painfully accurate.

"...The dialogue and voice of all generations in this book is painfully accurate. Themes are; you are invisible as you get older. Is that bad?..." Read more

"Beautiful, heartbreaking, brutally honest and full of love, like everything else Catherine Newman has written...." Read more

"It will have the most impact on those 50 and older. So relatable and candid. It could be my life...." Read more

"Such a good read. Truthful and funny. Written with depth but blunt and clear at the same time...." Read more

5 customers mention "Insightful"5 positive0 negative

Customers find the book insightful, brilliant, and beautiful.

"Funny, wise, relatable, and great writing! I tore through it and was sad for it to end." Read more

"Sandwich hooked me from page one! A very witty and intelligent book about 3 generations of a family who spend a week on Cape Cod. I loved this book...." Read more

"Sandwich is a story is spot-on it is insightful and just the balm we need. Thank you, Catherine Newman...." Read more

"I loved this book---the prose, the plot, the secrets, the wisdom...." Read more

20 customers mention "Characters"9 positive11 negative

Customers have mixed opinions about the characters in the book. Some find them poignant, funny, tender, and human, while others find them likable.

"That was one of the dullest books I've read in a long time. Unlikeable main character. I'm a page turner, I will read a whole book in a day...." Read more

"I want to read everything she writes. She gets us. There is a nuance to these characters, a depth of emotion so unbelievably real, you can see..." Read more

"...On the negative side, the characters failed to engage me, giving the impression of a Seinfeld episode—a book about nothing...." Read more

"...The characters are quirky and some of the family interplay is funny but overall, it's a serious look at learning to accept the changes that occur..." Read more

9 customers mention "Story"6 positive3 negative

Customers have mixed opinions about the story. Some find it great, while others say it's too long.

"...It is a profound story about what it means to be human. Which means: connected, flawed, yet full of love and hope. Read it! You'll be glad you did!" Read more

"This book was humorous and down to earth and I liked it. It just wasn't long enough!..." Read more

"...It seemed meant for me….And it let me down. The ending was good and meaningful and I’m glad I pushed through to find that out...." Read more

"...The story was great." Read more

19 customers mention "Storyline"0 positive19 negative

Customers find the storyline boring, bad, and whiny. They also say the theme of loss is depressing throughout and the book is full of clueless people. Customers also mention the book has one of the most obnoxious families they've ever met in a novel.

"...Unfortunately she has decided to write about one of the most obnoxious families I’ve ever met in a novel...." Read more

"...It just was never ending with the crudeness.You know how someone makes an inappropriate joke but it’s funny so you laugh?..." Read more

"...Unfortunately I found it rather lackluster and myself wondering what was the point...." Read more

"That was one of the dullest books I've read in a long time. Unlikeable main character. I'm a page turner, I will read a whole book in a day...." Read more

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“Life is a seesaw, and I am standing dead center, still and balanced: living kids on one side, living parents on the other. Nicky here with me at the fulcrum. Don’t move a muscle, I think. But I will, of course. You have to.”This slow paced, character driven novel had me choking up during many passages - the curse and the gift of being a 62 year old reader with grown and flown children, who feels so very seen.One week for 20 years, the family of 4 (+1 this year) returns to the same Cape Cod rental. Present day mom Rocky navigates the changing tide of her family in a place where memories lurk around every corner. As she copes with how menopause has been changing her mentally and physically, she embraces the chance to reflect on the past in an attempt to cope with big changes in her family. Funny and heartfelt scenes ramp up when Rocky’s parents arrive for a few days, the one bathroom cottage already bursting at the seams. We’ve all been there, right?For those unfamiliar with Cape Cod, there is an actual town named Sandwich. In this case the title shines a light on Rocky’s position as a mother, as a daughter, and somewhere among the madness, as herself.
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Reviewed in the United States on June 27, 2024
I want to read everything she writes. She gets us. There is a nuance to these characters, a depth of emotion so unbelievably real, you can see yourself, you’ll nod your head, laugh along, feel the warmth and intimacy as if you're a member of the family. A mother looking longingly at her grown children, still hanging on their every word, trying to speak their slang, she wants to hug them until they beg to be let go or when she knows she’s annoying them so much yet she can’t stop herself and being smack in the middle of the ridiculously unfair mind and body-altering menopausal symptoms, she can’t help but look back on events that altered her, reflect on her marriage, and other relationships right under her nose, and wonder.

It's Rocky’s favorite week of the year. She loves every minute of these precious days she gets to spend with her husband, son, daughter, and elderly parents in their tiny rental cottage on Cape Cod. The one they’ve been coming back to year after year. Easygoing Nick, Jamie, who loves to cook, brought his sweet and adoring girlfriend Maya, whom the family loves, chatty, opinionated Willa cringes when Rocky makes inappropriate comments, asks invasive questions but loves her, nonetheless. Secrets are revealed that change the trajectory of how Rocky looks at the past and thinks about the future. It’s board games, conversations with their cat, lazy days at the beach, counting the minutes until they can get to the clam shack.

Just wait for the custom sandwich orders. While they give the book its title, a sandwich here is a metaphor for a place in time, which Rocky marks by telling us how old her kids were at key moments, rather than how old she was. Holding on to her kids as babies, when they depended on her, now the letting go, her nest is empty, a new phase has begun, menopause has kicked in, her parents are aging. Her time was not her own though every moment with her precious family brings her joy, she needs to process what she’s going through. Reminiscent of Nora Ephron, who used the planning, preparation and enjoyment of food to show pleasure and love, Newman adeptly brings us to the table with exquisite yet simple summer meals of lobster, corn on the cob, tomato salad, and what’s in between those made-to-order sandwiches. Now, that’s love. And drama.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 23, 2024
I've read a lot of comments about this book on social media so I decided to order it from Amazon to find out what all the hype is about. It was an interesting read about a woman stuck between the generations -- in the middle of her adult children and her aging parents - trying very hard to make everyone happy often trying too hard which makes her unhappy with her own life.

For the past two decades, Rocky and her family have spent a week at Cape Cod during the summer. This year is no different - Rocky and her husband Nick, their son and his girlfriend and their daughter all crowd into a tiny rental to enjoy the week at the beach and reminisce on their past trips to the same house. The last two days of the week, Rocky's aging parents come to the beach house. With three generations of the family all in one small house, she realizes how sandwiched she is between her almost adult children and her aging parents. Much of the story takes place in her mind as she complains about the changes that menopause is bringing to her body and the effect it is having on her mind. She's proud of her children but misses them being small ad relaying on her to take care of all of their needs. She seems very ambivalent about her husband - it's almost that she loves him but often times doesn't like him much. She's kept secrets from him for their entire marriage and feels justified in it. During this week at the beach, she realizes that its finally time to share her secrets with him no matter what happens as a result.

There is a character driven story so don't expect a lot of action. It's a look at the life of a family - parents, adult children and aging parents - during one week on their annual beach vacation. The characters are quirky and some of the family interplay is funny but overall, it's a serious look at learning to accept the changes that occur as we age -- whether we want them to or not.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 4, 2024
This is the first book I’ve read by Catherine Newman. She is truly a gifted writer. Unfortunately she has decided to write about one of the most obnoxious families I’ve ever met in a novel. Every female character, except for grandma, is pretentious, clueless, immature, and in need of therapy. The storyline involves the absolute, all-consuming passion the main character has for being pregnant and being a mother (obsessed with her “perfect” children) for instance when she talked about them, saying “I ached with love…and I felt like a gaping wound. If I could have stuffed the children into it, I would have. Into me. To fill the hole. To keep them safe. To keep them,” while also being completely cavalier about abortion. One character says: “I got pregnant in high school. Having an abortion was a super easy decision then. I got it done during a free period between chem and Spanish.” She laughs. “Those were the days!” I am a liberal, a feminist, and I fully believe in women’s reproductive rights and the right to choose but this is obnoxious. I find it difficult to care for characters who speak this way. Newman does write the relationship between the main character and her elderly parents in a very touching and real way. And she can be very funny, but so many times, I just wanted to throw the book across the room. Oh well…not for everyone.
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Reviewed in the United States on July 14, 2024
I LOVED this book, especially the last third, and especially the relationships among the women over the three generations. I did find Nick, the husband, to be a bit "too perfect "(despite his named flaws, which weren't actually evident in the scenes), but that didn't stop me from loving the interactions among the family members, the characters, the voice, the humanity of the story ...

Readers should note that this is NOT really a "summer beach house read." It is a profound story about what it means to be human. Which means: connected, flawed, yet full of love and hope. Read it! You'll be glad you did!
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Reviewed in the United Kingdom on June 11, 2024
I just adore Catherine Newman's writing. I even end up thinking in her voice, narrating my daily life to myself as if it's one of her books, because her prose is just so natural and lovely.

This, her second novel, is even better than her first. It centres around one family's week-long holiday in Cape Cod, with the menopausal protagonist Rachel (also known as Rocky) firmly 'sandwiched' between her ageing parents and her young adult children. It's a simple yet powerful exploration of family, parenthood, marriage, love, loss, and the whole fleeting yet blinding beauty of life.

There are many quotes that have stuck with me, but this one sums up the book: 'Life is a seesaw, and I am standing dead center, still and balanced: living kids on one side, living parents on the other. Nicky here with me at the fulcrum. Don't move a muscle, I think. But I will, of course. You have to.' What an achingly bittersweet paragraph.

This book also made me laugh a surprising amount. Some of the characters are very funny, and the banter between the cast made me want to climb inside their cottage with them to join in their holiday. They will all stay with me for a long time.

'Sandwich' will definitely be in my top reads of 2024. My only criticism is that it's quite short and I didn't want it to end so soon.
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GLI
1.0 out of 5 stars Might be the Worst Book I’ve Read this Year ( And I Read About 5/week)
Reviewed in Canada on June 27, 2024
Reading this was painful, I had to force myself to finish. Mostly a monologue about one woman’s struggle with her feminine body; abortion, depression, menopause, etc. There really is no generational sandwich, other than the one she creates in her head. Her children are of age and live independently, her parents are elderly but live independently. Her husband should be given a hero award for sticking with her. I can think of nothing positive to say about this book other than I finished it.
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Highly-Strung
5.0 out of 5 stars Funny and poignant
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on June 24, 2024
Tolstoy said that all happy families are the same. This book disproves the rule. Three generations of a loving family vacation in Cape Cod. Their love for each other is intense inspite of their own personal issues. The narrator is going through the apocalyptic changes that come with menopause and isnegotiating her emotions and existential self. It's a beautiful depiction of people who feel well realised and relatable. It's also incredibly funny. Think David Sedaris or Norah Ephron. Parts of this made me laugh out loud while other parts made me want to cry.
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Sandraburke
5.0 out of 5 stars Sandwich
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on July 4, 2024
Loved this book really resonated with me as my children have moved away in the last year .Loved the characters
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J. A. Findlay
5.0 out of 5 stars Family Saga
Reviewed in the United Kingdom on June 21, 2024
An enjoyable thought provoking novel about family relationships.
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