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“We need Krista Tippett’s voice and wisdom now more than ever. She has elevated the art of listening and the practice of being present in a way that is both accessible and soulful. 
Becoming Wise is what I’ve been waiting for . . . This is brilliant thinking, beautiful storytelling, and practical insight.” —Brené Brown, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of Rising Strong
  
“A thoughtful chronicle of spiritual discovery. A hopeful consideration of the human potential for enlightenment.” —
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"I’m not sure there’s such a thing as the cultural 'center,' nor that it’s very interesting if it exists. But left of center and right of center, in the expansive middle and heart of our life together, most of us have some questions left alongside our answers, some curiosity alongside our convictions. This book is for people who want to take up the great questions of our time with imagination and courage, to nurture new realities in the spaces we inhabit, and to do so expectantly and with joy."

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Becoming Wise, Krista Tippett has created a master class in living for a fractured world. Fracture, she says, is not the whole story of our time. The enduring question of what it means to be human has become inextricable from the challenge of who we are to one another. She insists on the possibility of personal depth and common life for this century, nurtured by science and “spiritual technologies,” with civility and love as muscular public practice. And, accompanied by a cross-disciplinary dream team of a teaching faculty, she shows us how.

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“If you measure the worth of a book by the volume of scribbles you pen in the margins, the stars emphatically drawn, and the sentences underlined, Krista Tippett’s Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living—a compendium of wisdom, at once intimate and expansive—stands a serious shot of emerging both splattered and cherished. Tippett, the Peabody Award-winning radio host and National Humanities Medalist, is a master of what she terms ‘generous listening,’ an act ‘powered by curiosity,’ and a ‘willingness to be surprised, to let go of assumptions and take in ambiguity.’” Chicago Tribune

“Krista Tippett [is] a modern-day Simone Weil. . . . Becoming Wise is a tremendously vitalizing read in its totality—a wellspring of nuance and dimension amid our Flatland of artificial polarities, touching on every significant aspect of human life with great gentleness and a firm grasp of human goodness.” —Maria Popova, Brain Pickings

“Most of us can only dream of the dinner parties Krista Tippett could put together. We're lucky, then, that her new book is the next best thing to an invitation to sit down, make ourselves at home and prepare for a mind-expanding exploration of what it means to be human . . . Not light reading, but inspiring reading, for those willing to pull up a chair.”
Minneapolis Star Tribune 

Becoming Wise challenges all forms of dogma, in science, politics and philosophy as well as religion, and it affirms the holiness of the body and the glory of the inquiring mind. While our dominant media suggest that humans are incorrigibly selfish and greedy and cruel, Tippett and her conversation partners demonstrate that the longing to lead a good life, a moral life, remains powerful and pervasive in our day . . .” Washington Post

“This is not just a selection of greatest hits. Instead, rooted in Tippett's own keen insight, she provides an interlocking frame based on five themes: words, the body, love, faith, and hope. With dips into Tippett's childhood and early career, readers are embraced by her own struggle, vulnerability, and thirst for meaning. As researcher and TED-talk phenom Brené Brown told Tippett, ‘Hope is a function of struggle.’ Tippett's striving here is the grist for creative genius.”
Publishers Weekly (starred review) 

“A thoughtful examination of what it means to be fully human and aware, open eyed in the face of the darkness that is woven ineluctably into the light of life.” 
Shepherd Express 

“We need Krista Tippett’s voice and wisdom now more than ever. She has elevated the art of listening and the practice of being present in a way that is both accessible and soulful.
Becoming Wise is what I’ve been waiting forthe opportunity to learn from her and her experiences. This is brilliant thinking, beautiful storytelling, and practical insight. You won’t forget what you read here.” —Brené Brown, Ph.D., New York Times bestselling author of Rising Strong
  
“Krista Tippett’s ecumenical generosity speaks both to high moral standards and to diverse ways of conceptualizing and achieving them. Her trade has been listening, and from that listening has emerged a deep understanding of the mind and the heart and the curious bridges between them.  This is a book about kindness and forgiveness and the insight that is contingent on abandoning monolithic paradigms. 
Becoming Wise is an ambitious title, but in culling the wisdom of others, Tippett achieves a distinct and lovely wisdom of her own.” —Andrew Solomon

“A thoughtful chronicle of spiritual discovery. A hopeful consideration of the human potential for enlightenment.” 
Kirkus Reviews 

“I am a great admirer of Krista Tippett, who has spent years using her mind as a gentle but probing research tool into the beautiful, perilous, mysterious realm of the human soul. With this book, she has gathered all her years of learning and listening to create a masterpiece of philosophical and spiritual reflection. About halfway through the book, I stopped flagging pages and highlighting passages when I realized I was highlighting nearly every word. This entire book is filled with things I never want to forget. The only remedy will be to keep it near me, always.” 
—Elizabeth Gilbert

“After over a decade doing in-depth interviews and accumulating spiritual knowledge on her popular podcast 
On Being, Tippett pulls from that well of conversations to reconstruct her trail of investigation into the nature of wisdom. She tells her own life journey—her Oklahoma upbringing, her wide-eyed years in divided Cold War Germany, her decision to attend Yale divinity school—alongside the spiritual evolution that came while hosting the podcast. Pulling together and going beyond the accumulated knowledge of her interviews, Tippett's book is an incantatory trip into the paradoxical and profound.” Publishers Weekly (staff pick) 

“Krista Tippett has tirelessly reminded us of the perennial challenge, depth and complexity of the spiritual quest. At this pivotal moment in history, when on all sides religion is being so flagrantly abused, this marvellous book will inspire, excite and reinvigorate the reader.” 
—Karen Armstrong

“Krista Tippett is one of America’s ablest listeners, and in this book she assembles many of the people she has listened to and uses their example, and her own, to show us how many surprising and idiosyncratic paths still remain towards what even the most secular among us can agree should still be called enlightenment.”
—Adam Gopnik

“When President Obama gave Krista Tippett the coveted National Humanities Medal, he praised her for ‘thoughtfully delving into the mysteries of human existence.’ This book is yet another piece of evidence of the truth behind those words. Grounded in Tippett’s ‘life of conversation,’ the book offers more, much more than a chronicle of her award-winning public radio program,
On Being. In Becoming Wise, Tippett not only gives us the voices of the remarkable people with whom she’s conversed on-air. She speaks her own voice as well, a voice informed by her lifelong search for truth and meaning. Wisdom is a communal creation. Tippett is rare in her ability to host a far-flung community of luminaries, listeners and readers, who together uncover the wisdom that lies within and between us.” —Parker J. Palmer, author of Healing the Heart of Democracy, The Courage to Teach, A Hidden Wholeness, and Let Your Life Speak

About the Author

Krista Tippett is a Peabody Award-winning broadcaster and New York Times bestselling author. In 2014, she received the National Humanities Medal at the White House for "thoughtfully delving into the mysteries of human existence." She is the host of the public radio program and podcast On Being and Curator of the Civil Conversations Project (civilconversationsproject.org).

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  • Publisher ‏ : ‎ Penguin Books; Reprint edition (February 28, 2017)
  • Language ‏ : ‎ English
  • Paperback ‏ : ‎ 304 pages
  • ISBN-10 ‏ : ‎ 1101980311
  • ISBN-13 ‏ : ‎ 978-1101980316
  • Item Weight ‏ : ‎ 9 ounces
  • Dimensions ‏ : ‎ 5.5 x 0.8 x 8.2 inches
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Krista Tippett is a Peabody Award-winning broadcaster, National Humanities Medalist, and New York Times bestselling author. She created and hosts the public radio show and podcast "On Being" and curates the Civil Conversations Project, an emergent approach to the differences of our age. In 2013, Krista spun her project off from American Public Media and became CEO of the new, non-profit production enterprise, Krista Tippett Public Productions (KTPP). She grew up in a small town in Oklahoma, attended Brown University, became a journalist and diplomat in Cold War Berlin, and later received a Masters of Divinity from Yale University. Her books are "Becoming Wise: An Inquiry into the Mystery and Art of Living"; "Einstein's God: Conversations about Science and the Human Spirit"; and "Speaking of Faith: Why Religion Matters and How to Talk about it".

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Reviewed in the United States on January 6, 2017
This book was full of wisdom, or at least a vision of it. I wish I could just read this book and become wise, but unfortunately it just paints a picture of what obtaining wisdom should look like. I am not saying the content is not good, because it is fantastic, but don't expect to be wise after reading it.

I took my time with this book and the book itself sort of asks that of the reader. It is not something you just slog through, but is a distillation of what Krista Tippett has found to be most crucial in the "art of living." Don't expect roadmaps, but expect questions and soft direction. Tippett is a seeker. You can tell she loves and lives with question. I find myself of a similar persuasion, so I deeply enjoyed this book.

I look forward to revisiting this book and seeking more wisdom in the future.

So many excellent and eloquent quotes. This may be my most highlighted Kindle book so far. Some of the following is not from Tippett, but from those she has interviewed over the years. Here is a just a snapshot of the content.

On tolerance:
"We chose too small a word in the decade of my birth—tolerance—to make the world we want to live in now. We opened to the racial difference that had been there all along, separate but equal, and to a new infusion of religions, ethnicities, and values. But tolerance doesn’t welcome. It allows, endures, indulges. In the medical lexicon, it is about the limits of thriving in an unfavorable environment. Tolerance was a baby step to make pluralism possible, and pluralism, like every ism, holds an illusion of control. It doesn’t ask us to care for the stranger. It doesn’t even invite us to know each other, to be curious, to be open to be moved or surprised by each other."

On American Public Life:
"In America, many features of national public life are also better suited to adolescence than to adulthood. We don’t do things adults learn to do, like calm ourselves, and become less narcissistic. Much of politics and media sends us in the opposite, infantilizing direction. We reduce great questions of meaning and morality to “issues” and simplify them to two sides, allowing pundits and partisans to frame them in irreconcilable extremes. But most of us don’t see the world this way, and it’s not the way the world actually works."

On civil debate:
"the hallmark of a civil debate is when you can acknowledge that which is good in the position of the person you disagree with."

On admiration and love:
"When you admire people, you put them on pedestals. When you love people, you want to be together."

On the Miraculous and Love:
"What do you do about evil that swoops down completely at random? I suppose that’s where the issue of miracles comes in, that so many things had to happen in the right way, or the wrong way, depending on how you put it, for this particular young woman to meet this particular guy in the parking lot at 7:00 in the morning. That is as improbable as any miracle. And because of that, a miracle to me can’t just be something that was providential, that everything had to line up just right in order for it to happen. Bad things happen that way too. Really bad things happen that way too. If I look at it from another perspective, and this is really the perspective I maintain, I don’t look for God or God’s work in magic or in tricks or in, you know, “this is what I want” and then I get it. I look for God’s work always in how people love each other, in just the acts of love that I see around me."

God is bigger than Religion:
"The Bible is saying to us the whole time: Don’t think that God is as simple as you are. He’s in places you would never expect him to be. And you know, we lose a bit of that in English translation. When Moses at the burning bush says to God, “Who are you?” God says to him three words: “Hayah asher hayah.” Those words are mistranslated in English as “I am that which I am.” But in Hebrew, it means “I will be who or how or where I will be,” meaning, Don’t think you can predict me. I am a God who is going to surprise you. One of the ways God surprises us is by letting a Jew or a Christian discover the trace of God’s presence in a Buddhist monk or a Sikh tradition of hospitality or the graciousness of Hindu life. Don’t think we can confine God into our categories. God is bigger than religion."

On Resilience:
"I’m glad for the language of resilience that has entered the twenty- first-century lexicon, from urban planning to mental health. Resilience is a successor to mere progress, a companion to sustainability. It acknowledges from the outset that things will go wrong. All of our solutions will eventually outlive their usefulness. We will make messes, and disruption we do not cause or predict will land on us. This is the drama of being alive. To nurture a resilient human being, or a resilient city, is to build in an expectation of adversity, a capacity for inevitable vulnerability. As a word and as a strategy, resilience honors the unromantic reality of who we are and how we are, and so becomes a refreshingly practical compass for the systems and societies we can craft. It’s a shift from wish-based optimism to reality-based hope. It is akin to meaningful, sustained happiness—not dependent on a state of perfection or permanent satisfaction, not an emotional response to circumstances of the moment, but a way of being that can meet the range of emotions and experiences, light and dark, that add up to a life. Resilience is at once proactive, pragmatic, and humble. It knows it needs others. It doesn’t overcome failure so much as transmute it, integrating it into the reality that evolves."
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Reviewed in the United States on April 21, 2016
As others have already mentioned, this is very thoughtful and profound contribution. Tippett addresses how we interact with ourselves, each other, and the universe, if not more. The book is infused with nods to her personal journal, which makes the book so much more real and enjoyable. If there's any message, it's that we need to listen more: listen to ourselves, our hearts, and those with whom we strongly disagree. Ultimately, I think this book is about hope for us, as people and tribes, and societies. No surprise HOPE is her last chapter.

Even though her radio program, On Being, is not this way, I worried that this book would be too much about God or an effort to proselytize in some way. It is not either of those things. It's a mature, honest, lived perspective on what wisdom is, where it comes from, and what it can mean for us. Scientists, skeptics, and nonbelievers will find a great deal to relate to in this book.

If I have any critique, it's that Tippet bases her vision and effort on the great people of the world: the scientists, religious persons, and leaders of all sorts. It's no surprise that their work and words inspire. But Tippett pays little attention to the despots, the true criminals, and those who choose ignorance over thought (perhaps a large proportion?). She nods to her abusive parents, but seems to let them off the hook. I have to wonder what she'd write if she were down in the trenches facing the lesser of our collective angels. There is wisdom in such places and experiences, too. Wisdom of equal import, I think.

That said, the book is super, a must read, a must gift…
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Reviewed in the United States on December 7, 2016
This book is based on a number of conversations that the author has with a diverse group of individuals, some religious, some not; some steeped in arts and literature, some in science; but all of whom have a recognition of the existence and relevance of the unexplained mysteries of our world. The book might be described as an examination of spirituality from many different viewpoints, and such description would be accurate. But even “spirituality” is too often confused and/or equated with religion, and although the author, and many of her partners in conversation are in fact religious, I felt that the book was much more secular in tone- more philosophical than ecumenical. But most of all I enjoyed the book because of the beauty of its language. The messages conveyed were uplifting and the words used were lovely and carefully chosen. The author communicates with the reader, as does all writing, but not with the impact of this work.
Consistent with its title, this book seeks the manner in which we can mine the raw materials of life that can be then molded into wisdom. She divides these resources into five “***basic aspects of the human everyday, which*** (she sees) *** as breeding grounds for wisdom”. They are words, body, love, faith and hope. Although she makes these divisions, I must admit that, just reflecting from memory and not reviewing the text again, I felt the general themes of mystery and connectedness were paramount throughout the book, and the different themes were somewhat submerged within them.
I usually proceed to produce a summary of sorts from my non fiction reads, but I don’t know whether I will do so for this book. I’m not sure if that is a result of a certain slothfulness on my part, or just due to the fact that this might well be a book that I would actually reread, in whole or in part, merely to re-experience the richness of the author’s prose. But I will at least touch upon and at times recite some of her more poetic and poignant phrases.
When speaking of the importance of words, she note that the plain truth is that they do matter, a reality that is so self evident that we ignore it a thousand times a day. She acknowledges that “(w)ords are crafted by human beings, wielded by human beings. They take on all of our flaws and frailties. They diminish or embolden the truths they arose to carry.” Writing this two days after the 2016 election, there is little doubt of the veracity of such comment. She speaks to the necessary precision in the words we use in order to know each other deeply through our conversations. And she then makes a statement quite timely for this day:
“I can disagree with your opinion, it turns out, but I can’t disagree with your experience. And once I have a sense of your experience, you and I are in relationship, acknowledging the complexity in each other’s position, listening less guardedly. The difference in our opinions will probably remain intact, but it no longer defines what is possible between us.”
This reflection goes to the necessity of acknowledging our commonality– not through agreement or compromise, but by an effort to understand our differences and thus move beyond them. She notes that we all trained to be verbal advocates for our beliefs and causes, and that is commendable, but it can interfere with our more basic need to care for one another. To accomplish this connection she noes the need for “generous listening”, a listening
“***powered by curiosity, a virtue we can invite and nurture in ourselves to render it instinctive. It involves a kind of vulnerability—a willingness to be surprised, to let go of assumptions and take in ambiguity. The listener wants to understand the humanity behind the words of the other, and patiently summons one’s own best self and one’s own best words and questions.”
This type of listening fosters the type of speech that invites
“***searching—not on who is right and who is wrong and the arguments on every side; not on whether we can agree; but on what is at stake in human terms for us all.”
Through this type of communication humankind can come to the realization that their own well-being is linked to that of others, a link that becomes wider and wider, extending beyond family and tribe.
The author then turns to the body, noting that we are all matter, as are all living and non living things, and that we are all connected. Like many religions, philosophies and spiritual credos, the author notes the comfort and relief when we come to this basic realization of oneness. She also stresses the importance of being in the present, noting that Thoreau wrote ““(o)nly that day dawns to which we are awake.” Buddhism perhaps best cultivates this idea of living in the moment. She laments that we Americans may have lost the feeling that our bodies are connected to all of nature, even through appreciation of simple things such as the food we bring to our tables.
She also speaks of beauty, noting that it is not found in a perfect face or body-that is better referred to as glamour-, but is instead something in the presence of which we feel more alive. Beauty “*** in that sense is about an emerging fullness, a greater sense of grace and elegance, a deeper sense of depth, and also a kind of homecoming for the enriched memory of your unfolding life.” She finds beauty in music and, in an elegant phrase, says that it “***is what language would be if it could.”
She describes love as “the superstar of virtues”, but also one of the most watered down words in our language– I love the weather, I love this dress. She compares our single word to the more robust definitions in Greek: Our concept of love is but
“***(t)he sliver of love’s potential that the Greeks separated out as eros, where we load so much of our desire, center so much of our imagination about delight and despair, define so much of our sense of completion. There is the love the Greeks called filia—the love of friendship. There is the love they called agape—love as embodied compassion, expressions of kindness that might be given to a neighbor or a stranger.”
Most importantly she, like many others, sees love as the emotion both common to and linking us all. She notes that “(s)piritual geniuses and saints have always called humanity to love, as have social reformers who shifted the lived world on its axis.” It is the emotion that can lead us to non violence and to peace. Love is the common humanity that must be confidently relied upon to bring humankind together. It is what connects us, and we must recognize this joinder, this need for belonging, for we can not thrive outside of relationships. The author feels that people are seeking relationships and belonging to the wider good but we are hampered because
“ we don’t have confidence in love. We have much more confidence in anger and hate. We believe anger is powerful. We believe hate is powerful. And we believe love is wimpy. And so if we’re engaged in the world, we believe it’s much better to sort of organize around anger and hate.”
We can not thrive in such an environment, and must find the way to love.
Her discussion of faith first draws upon her Christian upbringing when she sang hymns in church. She remembers that as her “***earliest experience of breath and body, mind and spirit soaring together, alive to both mystery and reality, in kinship with others both familiar and unknown.” This feeling that she describes form her childhood is still her best definition of faith. She also notes, as do other religious figures and spiritual leaders, that the idea of faith is not confined to the religious, but also finds it way into science. As physics and astronomy have evolved, as countless questions have been answered, scientists find that there are still vast areas of the unknown, areas that can only be filled with mystery, and navigated through faith. We don’t need to lament our inability to resolve all mystery. We should instead welcome it and rejoice in it. Indeed, the author meets scientists who “***speak of a religiosity without spirituality—a reverence for the place of ritual in human life, and the value of human community, without a need for something supernaturally transcendent.” From a more spiritual perspective, perhaps this remaining mystery, this vast unknown in our world and our universe, is the closest description, or perhaps definition of what we refer to as God. Or, as the author says:
“God is, if nothing else—and that’s a big if—but if nothing else, God is that force that drives us to really see each other and to really behold each other and care for each other and respond to each other. And for me, that is actually enough.”
The author then addresses hope. She defines it as follows:
“Hope, like every virtue, is a choice that becomes a practice that becomes spiritual muscle memory. It’s a renewable resource for moving through life as it is, not as we wish it to be.”
Hope is distinct from optimism or idealism, and has nothing to do with wishing. “It references reality at every turn and reveres truth”.
Through hope we are called to our best selves and long to figure out what that would look like. We need to know that we need each other to do so. Hope is not necessarily an emotion, but “***a cognitive, behavioral process that we learn when we experience adversity, when we have relationships that are trustworthy, when people have faith in our ability to get out of a jam.”
As I mentioned above, the author’s division of her book into these five different themes is not crucial to the overreaching message of our interconnectedness as humans. This is a commonality that transcends philosophies and embraces us all, be we religious or agnostic, scientist or lay person. The author develops this message to create a thought provoking and inspiring work.
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