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Do you speak, present, or sell over video calls? https://lnkd.in/gQgq6fZh Let's face it, public speaking is challenging for many, regardless of the medium. However, virtual presentations can be a special kind of difficult. We often refer to this as "Presenting in the Box." Want to get better at it? Join Equipping Voices Toastmasters Club virtually on the 1st and 3rd Monday at 7 pm CST. Our next meeting will be Monday, May 6th. Here are six things you’ll learn: 1. The value and importance of speaking within a time frame and how to deliver impactful presentations quickly and concisely. 2. How to engage a virtual audience successfully, with energy and excitement. 3. Ways to use the entire screen -- all four sides of 'the box' -- to deliver a robust and meaningful message. 4. How to quickly craft a presentation that has a solid opening, body, and conclusion, with a powerful call to action. 5. How to recognize and eliminate distracting speaking habits such as verbal pauses, poor grammar, improper word choice, etc. 6. Most of all, how to get over the fear of public speaking, teaching your butterflies to fly in formation. Using the link above, join us as a guest and consider joining one the most effective ways to improve your communication and leadership skills. What have you been waiting for? If not now, when? . Interested, but the date and time doesn't work for you? Would rather meet face-to-face? Reach out to me and I'll help you find a club that will suit your needs. ….. Follow me if you enjoy discussing business and success daily. Click on the notification bell 🔔 to be informed when I post. #business #success #incubator #coaching #consultants #neversettle

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🌟 How Mood Affects Profit 🌟 Learn how a leader's mood directly impacts profitability and team performance. Discover the science behind stress and its effect on brain function, and get practical tips for managing stress in today's workplace. Join us for a straightforward discussion on leadership and mood, with actionable advice for business growth. 💼🚀 🔗 Watch the full video here https://lnkd.in/gEUu2TK9 #PotentialUnleashed #SuccessTips #LeadershipTips #SanjeevJayaratnam

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…t𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙥𝙚𝙧𝙛𝙚𝙘𝙩. …t𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙬𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙝𝙮. …t𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙 𝙚𝙣𝙤𝙪𝙜𝙝. …t𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚𝙡𝙤𝙣𝙜. …t𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙨𝙖𝙛𝙚. …t𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙥𝙧𝙚𝙩𝙚𝙣𝙙 𝙩𝙝𝙖𝙩 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙞𝙨 𝙜𝙤𝙤𝙙 𝙬𝙝𝙚𝙣 𝙞𝙩’s 𝙣𝙤𝙩. …t𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙘𝙤𝙣𝙩𝙧𝙤𝙡 & 𝙙𝙤𝙢𝙞𝙣𝙖𝙩𝙚 𝙚𝙫𝙚𝙧𝙮𝙩𝙝𝙞𝙣𝙜. …t𝙧𝙮𝙞𝙣𝙜 𝙩𝙤 𝙗𝙚 𝙘𝙤𝙢𝙛𝙤𝙧𝙩𝙖𝙗𝙡𝙚. That is the 6 year old you trying to keep you safe and hold you back from the real you that wants more. When we let our subconscious mind rule our reactions it is our younger wounded self we often react with. 🚫𝗦𝗧𝗢𝗣 reacting in life www.virtualmindcamp.com #creator #mindset #virtualmindcamp #magneticmindcoach #superconscious

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𝗔𝗿𝗲 𝘆𝗼𝘂 𝗮 𝗽𝘂𝗿𝗽𝗼𝘀𝗲 𝗱𝗿𝗶𝘃𝗲𝗻 𝗹𝗲𝗮𝗱𝗲𝗿, 𝗳𝗼𝘂𝗻𝗱𝗲𝗿, 𝗰𝗵𝗮𝗻𝗴𝗲 𝗺𝗮𝗸𝗲𝗿, 𝗲𝗻𝘁𝗿𝗲𝗽𝗿𝗲𝗻𝗲𝘂𝗿 𝗼𝗿 𝗰𝗼𝗮𝗰𝗵 𝗹𝗼𝗼𝗸𝗶𝗻𝗴 𝘁𝗼 𝗰𝗿𝗲𝗮𝘁𝗲 𝗳𝘂𝗿𝘁𝗵𝗲𝗿 𝗶𝗺𝗽𝗮𝗰𝘁 𝗶𝗻 𝘁𝗵𝗲 𝘄𝗼𝗿𝗹𝗱❓ At Dreams to Reality you will discover the keys to unlocking your own transformation, so you can continue to empower, lead and create impact for the people you are called to serve. NOT JUST ANY OLD PERSONAL DEVELOPMENT EVENT Sponsored by The Working Kind Collective, this in-person boutique event is unlike your regular everyday workshop. It’s specifically designed around YOU - your breakthroughs and your transformation. Experience interactive exercises and breakout sessions in a safe space that allow you to move past the point where you would normally stop, share and embed your insights, and build community and lasting connections with like minded individuals in a space where you feel seen, heard and understood. Link in comments to register, see you in the room 🙌🏽 #DreamsToReality #TransformingLives #OneConversationAtATime #SayYesToYou

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Many of you may have heard of the Japanese concept of "IKIGAI," which means your "reason for being."    It's that sweet spot where your passion, talents, societal contribution, and financial sustenance all beautifully intersect.    But did you know that the key to achieving your IKIGAI might be simpler than you think?   It's easy to become engrossed in the lives and affairs of others in today's online world. We often find ourselves comparing our journey to those around us, leading to feelings of inadequacy or dissatisfaction.    This constant comparison can distract us from our own path and hinder our ability to find true fulfilment.   My father taught me the importance of "minding my own business" long before I even knew about the concept of IKIGAI.    At first, I didn't fully grasp the significance of his advice. But as I navigated through life, I began to realise how focusing on my own goals and passions could lead to a more purposeful existence.   ➡ When we get distracted by what others are doing, we lose sight of our own unique talents and desires.    ➡ We start to doubt ourselves and question whether we're on the right path.    The solution is simple: mind your own business.    Here's how:   1. Identify your passions: What activities bring you joy and a sense of fulfillment? Pursue them unapologetically.   2. Cultivate your talents: Recognise your unique skills and strengths. Invest time and effort into developing them further.   3. Contribute to society: Find ways to use your passions and talents to make a positive impact on the world around you.   4. Seek financial stability: To create a sustainable lifestyle, align your pursuits with a means of financial sustenance.   By minding your own business and focusing on these 4 elements, you can create a life that is truly your own—one that:    ➡ brings you joy ➡ aligns with your values ➡ allows you to make a meaningful contribution to the world   So, are you minding your own business, or are you getting caught up in the affairs of others?

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Saying that we want things to change, complaining about the way things are, placing the blame on external sources - while our feelings behind these actions may be valid, they do nothing to bring about change. This does not mean devaluing others’ thoughts, ideas or them as people. Reacting to situations with anger, vengeance, or haughtiness are unproductive actions that stagnate progress and growth. Change starts with us and requires understanding, respect and the willingness to listen and communicate. Each of us has the power to be better and do better… and in using our power, we serve as inspiration for others. Acting with compassion, purpose, and intelligence may not be easy, it may take a long time, but without personally taking the first step, how can we expect anyone else to follow?  #JohnVerricoLLC  #ShareYourFire  #July  #Calendar  #Challenge #BeTheSpark #torchtip #motivation  #trust  #opportunity  #respect  #communication  #humanity #speaker  #trainer  #coach

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JOT - Jai's One Thought ❗️Resilience and coping with challenges ❓️Do you believe you're resilient, and can easily cope with challenges that life regularly throws at us? ❓️Do you feel you have the tenacity to keep moving forward in life, despite obstacles? 🇯🇵"Nan korobi, ya oki. - If you fall 7 times, get up 8 times." - Meaning, aim to not let life knock you down. Everything that happens to us - health, relationships, career, finances, etc. helps us grow and become stronger, if we refuse to give up. I have that Japanese proverb written on rice paper, framed, and hanging on my living room wall, as a constant reminder to me to remain resilient. Here are 3 tips I routinely follow that could help you cope with your challenges and become more resilient: ➡️1. Develop your own coping strategies - mindfulness, meditation, social groups or communities, seeking help from trusted mentors, etc. The key is that whatever works for you might not work for others, and vice-versa. Only you know what works best for you, so develop and implement that during challenging times. By the way, for me, it's listening to music and comedy, audio books on leadership and motivation, and podcasts of inspirational speakers. ➡️2. Remain flexible - you may need to adapt to changing circumstances. Remaining open-minded, and flexible, will help you to adapt quickly to change, uncertainity, or unexpected circumstances. ➡️3. Learn from setbacks - Instead of dwelling too long on failures, or setbacks, look at them as growth and learning opportunities. What lessons did your setback teach you? How can you overcome this situation so that you're bolder, and wiser? What can you do to make your life a little easier? The above tips will help you become more resilient, and prepare yourself for future challenges. Finally, remember 💡- "There are no great people in the world. Only great challenges, and ordinary people who rise up to meet them." - William Fredrick Halsey Jr. (Former US Naval Commander during World War 2) #Resilience #Challenges #Setbacks #Copingstrategies

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Steve Jobs' assertion that "innovation distinguishes between a leader and a follower" encapsulates a timeless truth. Leaders who prioritize innovation pave the way for progress, drive change, and inspire others to follow suit. By embracing a visionary mindset, fostering creativity, leading by example, continuously learning, driving purposeful innovation, and empowering your team, you can distinguish yourself as a leader in today’s fast-paced world. Let's commit to being leaders who champion innovation and make a lasting impact on our organizations and beyond. #Leadership #Innovation #SteveJobs #Vision #Creativity #ContinuousLearning #Empowerment #PurposefulInnovation

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JOT - Jai's One Thought ❗️Making incremental progress, everyday! "It does not matter how slow you go, as long as you do not stop." - Confucius (551 BC-479 BC, Chinese philosopher, teacher, traditionally considered a paragon of Chinese sages) That quote by Confucius brings to mind the classic, Aesop's tale - The Tortoise and the Hare, doesn't it? We're often prone to what is referred to in business as - 'Analysis Paralysis' - where we focus on problems, pitfalls, and perfection, rather than progress. When living in Japan, several years ago, I came to know that the term 'Kaizen,' is also applicable to our growth in multiple areas of our lives - mental, intellectual, creative, spiritual, personal, and professional - in small, daily increments. ❓️Can we deconstruct the way we're living our lives, study the various aspects, and put the pieces back together again, but in a better way? 🔹️That would be progress, in small, or giant steps, depending on what area of your life you choose to improve, isn't it? Here's the thought I have for you, today. ❓️What 1% incremental improvement can you make in any area of your life, starting today? 💡Mathematically, if you focused on a 1% gain, daily, it would amount to a whopping 30% improvement in your life, at the end of the month, and 360% by the end of the year. Just thinking about the cumulative progress we could make in our lives, in small, incremental, baby steps, is remarkable, isn't it? #progress #growth #settinggoals #achievement

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When you understand that happiness is a choice and a mindset, you empower yourself to find joy in every moment. Learn to be friends with what is and practise gratitude daily. This cultivates a deep sense of contentment, allowing you to remain joyful through life’s ups and downs. Believe in your ability to create your own happiness. Start today by embracing the inner peace that comes from knowing true happiness is always within your reach. 🌟 Drop 💖 if you believe in finding happiness from within! #MindfulLiving #PositiveMindset #gratitudepractice #choosehappiness #InnerPeace #JoyfulLife #FindJoy #StayPositive #CreateHappiness #ClardoonCoaching

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I love how we're beginning to explore the potential of living active and fulfilling lives several decades beyond the traditional retirement age of 65. We're just starting to grasp this exciting possibility. Meanwhile, younger generations are already thinking ahead—like these Singaporean elementary students envisioning their lives at 100. The question “Who will you be at 100?” is more important than the answer. You won’t necessarily be interested in the same professional activities as in your 40s and 50s. But you’ll likely still want to engage in something fulfilling and energizing. What would that be? This question has guided me deeper into my work with C-suite teams, inspiring me to foster meaningful connections and relationships, and to give back by helping others discover their potential during the deeply transformative period of midlife. My story mirrors an almost universal trait of aging, reflecting our shared desire for deeper connections and purpose as we grow older. I’m as energized as I have ever been, and I’m now 64. This question drove my decision a year ago to no longer coach executives under 40 and focus instead on the deeply transformative period of midlife, a focus that is more sustainable for my own future. My freshly published book, Soaring Beyond Midlife, was born out of this new focus, exploring how midlife naturally fosters exceptional leadership traits that were less common in our younger years (link in the comments). I’d love to hear from you. What new passions or activities do you see yourself exploring as you age? Who will you be at 100? Reflect on someone in your life who seems to be rejuvenating as they age. Celebrate their influence by sharing a moment of gratitude, and if you feel moved to, tag them to let them know how they’re impacting your journey through midlife.

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Dear friends, Some years ago, a motivational speech by Les Brown reminded me of an important skill we should all hone as leaders. He spoke about the importance of listening in our lives, and it made me realize that I wasn't always the best at it. Les Brown said it best: "Listening holds twice the importance of speaking; that's why we have two ears and only one mouth" 👏. That quote stuck with me! Since then, I've been working hard to become a more active listener. I even make it a point to share the power of listening in all my training sessions. It's such an important skill for effective communication and building strong relationships! Here are seven benefits you get by being an active listener 1. Improved decision-making 🎯 - By truly understanding the issue and everyone's perspective, you can make better choices. 2. Stronger relationships 🤝 - People feel valued and heard when you listen attentively. 3. Increased trust and credibility 💯 - When you listen well, people know they can rely on you. 4. Reduced conflict and misunderstandings 🙅‍♀️ - By clarifying issues and identifying common ground, you can prevent problems. 5. Fostered innovation and creativity 💡 - Listening to diverse ideas sparks new solutions and approaches. 6. Enhanced problem-solving skills 🧰 - By actively listening to the details, you can identify the root cause of problems. 7. Boosted employee morale and engagement 🤩 - Employees who feel heard are happier, more productive, and more invested in their work. #listening #communication #growthmindset #LesBrown #leadershiptips

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A #relationship is like a puzzle. 🧩 Each piece represents a shared experience. Which fosters an environment where your relationship can flourish. But here's the catch: Putting together a puzzle takes: ↳ Patience ↳ Perseverance ↳ Willingness to embrace the process Patience becomes your guiding light as you navigate the complexities of life together. Perseverance fuels your determination to keep going, even when the pieces don't seem to fit. It's the commitment to work through your disagreements; Communicate openly; And always strive for a deeper connection. In the moments of uncertainty and setbacks... You embrace the process and learn the true value of resilience. Hold onto the unwavering belief that you are each other's safe haven; And that you'll be there to catch one another when you stumble. As you connect the pieces... Trust grows... Creating a bond that withstands life's many challenges. And when the last piece falls into place... You witness the beauty of a complete picture—a relationship built on: ✔️ Love ✔️ Trust ✔️ Honesty ✔️ Respect ✔️ Commitment ✔️ Communication A masterpiece that reflects the journey you've taken together. Need help navigating the dating scene to create your own masterpiece❓ 🔥 Book a Dating Strategy Session today and let's elevate your experience to transform your romantic journey. 🌟 Link in comments.🌟 >>>>>> #Love #Relationships #RelationshipCoach #SeekingSynergy

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In Tai-Chi, every movement is intentional and precise. In self-defense, it's not about force but adapting, yielding, and using minimal effort to harness chaotic energy. Similarly, in leadership, responding with calmness and compassion during tense meetings or difficult conversations can diffuse situations. A mindful leader's gentle yet powerful words convey clarity and conviction, enabling effective strategy and inspiring messages. I remember a leadership meeting where I was brought in to diffuse conflict between two groups. By pausing before speaking, actively listening, and finding common ground, I led the group to a unified solution. This peaceful approach showed me how our steady energy can transform any atmosphere. Have you ever used a calm approach to diffuse a tense situation at work? Share your experience below! Join my Tai Chi course starting 10th July, 7-8 PM at Bodytree Wellness Studio. Discover how Tai Chi principles can transform your leadership style and personal growth. #Leadership #TaiChi #MindfulLeadership #ConflictResolution #PersonalGrowth #WomenInLeadership #LeadershipDevelopment #EmotionalIntelligence #CompassionateLeadership #BodytreeStudio

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"Enough About Me" by Richard Lui Here are some key lessons from the book 1. The Power of Selflessness: Lui emphasizes the transformative power of selflessness in both personal and professional contexts. By shifting the focus away from one's own needs and desires towards serving others, individuals can cultivate deeper connections, foster empathy, and find greater fulfillment and purpose in life. 2. Moving Beyond Self-Centeredness: The book challenges readers to examine their own tendencies towards self-centeredness and to explore ways of breaking free from this mindset. Lui encourages readers to consider the impact of their actions on others and to prioritize the well-being of the community as a whole. 3. Practicing Empathy and Compassion: Empathy and compassion are essential qualities for fostering selflessness and building meaningful connections with others. Lui shares insights and strategies for cultivating empathy, such as active listening, putting oneself in others' shoes, and seeking to understand their perspectives and experiences. 4. Finding Meaning in Service: Serving others can bring a sense of purpose and fulfillment that extends beyond personal gain. Lui explores the various ways in which individuals can make a positive impact in their communities, whether through volunteer work, acts of kindness, or advocacy for social justice. 5. Building Stronger Relationships: Selflessness is the foundation of strong and lasting relationships. Lui discusses the importance of prioritizing the needs of others, showing appreciation and gratitude, and fostering mutual respect and understanding in relationships. 6. Creating a Culture of Giving: Lui advocates for creating a culture of giving and generosity in society, where individuals and organizations prioritize the well-being of others and work together to address social challenges and inequalities. 7. Overcoming Obstacles to Selflessness: Lui acknowledges the challenges and obstacles that may arise on the path to selflessness, such as selfish desires, societal pressures, and fear of vulnerability. He offers practical strategies for overcoming these obstacles and staying committed to serving others. 8. Finding Balance: While selflessness is important, it's also essential to prioritize self-care and maintain healthy boundaries. Lui encourages readers to find balance between serving others and taking care of their own needs, recognizing that selflessness does not mean sacrificing one's own well-being. 9. Leading by Example: Leaders have a unique opportunity to model selflessness and inspire others to follow suit. Lui discusses the role of leadership in fostering a culture of service, empathy, and collaboration, both within organizations and in broader society. 10. Continual Growth and Learning: Selflessness is a lifelong journey of growth and learning.

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